Feeling nostalgic today so I grabbed this from Clotted Cognition. I wrote this in December of 2008.
Once again, a semester is ending. As usual, I am sad to see my
students leave my classes and will miss each of them so much. Also as
usual, this group of students has been remarkable. I've learned a great
deal from them and will never stop caring for them.
My
students this semester were equally as diverse as any other semester;
Richland has made it part of its mission to create a diverse student
body. The diversity I am concerned with, though, is diversity of
purpose, experience and thinking. The DNA strand of their diversity was
woven together randomly but efficiently, beautifully and sensibly. I am
always amazed at how well people of different backgrounds can come
together in a class and trust each other enough to talk about their
tragedies, their joys, and their hopes. But they do, every semester.
Every semester my faith in humanity and in the sublime connections we
share is renewed. Believe me when I say, they represent all that we can
be if we decide to trust and to hope. I wish everyone could experience
these things with me, but you can't, so I hope you believe me.
This
semester I had my students write journals as an informal way of putting
thoughts on paper to sort of get the juices flowing. I've found that my
writing and thinking has improved as I've written more (dur) and I
think the same was true for my students. It was also a rare glimpse into
their lives that goes further than I would normally go. I couldn't even
count the number of times I had tears running down my face as I was
reading those journals. Not all tears are from sadness, of course; many
times I was so happy to read that they had experienced something
wonderful and had trusted me enough to tell me about it. Many times I
wanted to go back into their pasts and beat the crap out of the people
who hurt them. How could anyone do such a thing to those little pieces
of wonderful?
Two of my students are now dating; that
makes me happier than I can express. Many of my students are in love and feeling the elation that
comes from knowing you have someone who loves you and you alone. A few
of them are in deep despair; I desperately want to help them but I don't
know how. They know how much they mean to me and they know that I am
always available to them, so perhaps that is enough. One young man has
been to Iraq and knows the horror of what it means to fight a war; he is
profoundly kind and possesses remarkable circumspection. One student
started out not liking the class very much and is now thinking of
majoring in philosophy and going on for his PhD to teach. He is
absolutely capable of that and would make an excellent teacher. Another
student told me he took my class on a whim, not even knowing what
philosophy was; he is also going to major in philosophy, now. One
student rescued a woman from an abusive relationship by putting himself
in grave danger. One student told the class about an addiction she had
been through, something so brave, so giving. This young woman gave of
her experience to the rest of the class in an attempt to help others
understand the nature of addiction. She didn't have to do that, but she
did it because she is a strong, amazing young woman. There are so many
instances of tremendous experiences and courage that I could relate, but
I would be here all day. The thing I find so remarkable about these
students is how many of them expressed surprise at having made friends
with other classmates. I am more than pleased that they've chosen to
open their lives to each other and to become friends.
It's
easy to go on and on about them and to get repetitive with my praise,
but I'll leave it a bit shorter this semester. All that really needs to
be expressed is this thought: if we trust the younger generations to
carry us into the future, we'll be in excellent shape. They have less
bias than we do, they are more open to others than we are, and they are
more capable of understanding what it means to live in a society of rich
variety. They are more amazing than you can possibly understand by just
reading this short post, but try anyway. Live this through me: know
that there is sublime promise out there and they are ready and willing
to represent all that is best, all that we are capable of being that is
good and courageous. They are our conscience and they are our best hope
realized in action. They are the ease of laughter and the stretch toward
the sky. They are the best part of us. We are lucky.
Those were such kind words to say about us. Thank you for all you taught us and I am glad we will stay in touch forever. Tonya
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